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Breaking the Chains of Approval: How 'I DO ME' Empowers Self-Expression

Break free from constant approval-seeking: guide to building professional confidence and autonomous decision-making.
January 9, 2025 by
Breaking the Chains of Approval: How 'I DO ME' Empowers Self-Expression
Paolo Maria Pavan
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Let me drop a truth bomb to shatter the silence: you've been dancing to a rhythm that isn't yours. From the moment you took your first steps, the world handed you a script titled Approval Required. And let me tell you, that script is a lie—crafted to keep you small, predictable, and locked in a cycle of seeking permission from a world that doesn’t even know your potential.

AUTHOR : Paolo Maria Pavan

Co-Founder of Xtroverso | Visionary Entrepreneur

Paolo Maria Pavan leads Xtroverso’s Digital Division with creativity and strategic vision. Passionate about storytelling and technology, he empowers businesses to amplify their brand and thrive in the digital landscape.


But what if you ripped up that script? What if you turned the volume up on your true self and stopped begging for applause? That’s where the philosophy of I DO ME kicks in. It’s not a slogan. It’s not a trend. It’s a revolution—a way of living that challenges you to claim your voice, your vision, and your power unapologetically.

The Chains of Approval: Recognize the Lie

Approval is a silent dictator. It teaches you to measure your worth by the nods, likes, and affirmations of others. It convinces you to shrink, to dilute your boldness, to smooth your edges so you fit neatly into society's expectations. But here’s the truth they don’t want you to know: approval is not love, and compliance is not success.

When you live for approval, you trade authenticity for acceptance, and that trade robs you of your most valuable asset—your individuality. Every time you ask, “Is this okay?” you dim the light that makes you unforgettable.

'I DO ME': The Antidote to Approval

'I DO ME' isn’t just a philosophy—it’s a challenge. A battle cry. A decision to break free from the need to be validated by anyone but yourself. It’s the raw, unfiltered permission to:

  • Own your contradictions. The messy, beautiful chaos of who you are is where your power lies.
  • Amplify your voice. The world needs your perspective, not an echo of someone else's.
  • Live without apology. Your worth isn’t up for negotiation.

When you embrace 'I DO ME,' you rewrite the rules. You stop chasing applause and start creating impact. You stop asking for validation and start demanding respect—not by conforming, but by daring to stand in your truth.

The Power of Authentic Self-Expression

Living authentically isn’t about being fearless. It’s about being brave enough to act despite the fear. It’s about choosing expression over approval every single time. Here’s what happens when you do:

  1. You attract your tribe. When you show up as your full, unapologetic self, you magnetize the people who resonate with your truth and repel those who don’t. And that’s a blessing.
  2. You become unstoppable. The world can judge, misunderstand, or reject you, but none of it can stop you when your power comes from within.
  3. You create impact. Authenticity cuts through the noise. Your rawness inspires others to step into their truth, creating a ripple effect that changes lives.

How to Start Living 'I DO ME'

  1. Stop asking for permission. Before you post, speak, or act, ask yourself: Am I doing this for approval or because it’s my truth?
  2. Celebrate your edges. Write down the parts of yourself you’ve been hiding and decide to own them. Those edges? They’re your superpower.
  3. Amplify your voice. Share your raw, unedited thoughts. Let the world see you—not a polished, censored version, but the real you.

Your Call to Action

Burn the script. Rip off the mask. Break the chains. The world doesn’t need another person playing it safe, seeking approval, and blending in. It needs you—fully expressed, gloriously imperfect, and unapologetically alive.

So, the next time you find yourself hesitating, wondering what “they” will think, remember this: You were not born to be an echo. You were born to be a voice.

Choose yourself. Choose chaos. Choose 'I DO ME.' Because the moment you stop living for their approval is the moment you start living for your truth—and that’s where the magic begins.

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